tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1212890428051515494.post8499229654619753895..comments2024-03-19T09:47:02.249-05:00Comments on Say What?: A Final Goodbye and an Aggressive Driver EncounterKevin Gilmorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07689287179985777963noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1212890428051515494.post-58894082174692852902016-11-07T20:54:04.295-06:002016-11-07T20:54:04.295-06:00Her ashes came back from the University of Minneso...Her ashes came back from the University of Minnesota about a month ago. He wanted to get up there this fall yet before the ground froze. <br /><br />Yes, the headstones look very nice. Keith and Tracee arranged to have them made when they were up there last summer.<br /><br />It's been over 10 years -- since our reunion in 2006 that I've been there. I need to get back up there as well. Kevin Gilmorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07689287179985777963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1212890428051515494.post-1972098106288488362016-11-07T20:41:51.673-06:002016-11-07T20:41:51.673-06:00I didn't know Keith had received Mom's ash...I didn't know Keith had received Mom's ashes. And I guess I'm now feeling better about that as it was in limbo for a long time.<br />The headstones were very nice. Especially the guitar on Tim's.<br />I think about him often and I guess I feel bad that he died alone. Nothing I can do about it but I wish he had been able to be with one of us when he passed.<br />People have said we all die alone but I think having someone with you that you know in the end is as good as it can be.<br />Mom had passed alone as well in a way. I hope her last memories were of Keith and Tracee with her as they spent a lot of time with her in the end.<br />But we all felt we did what we could do and I know she must have understood that.<br />Having been at Dad's graveside this summer swatting the gnats and trying to clean up the weeds I'm glad to see that it looks much better than when I was there.<br />I feel compelled to visit again. When I don't know. David Bryan Gilmorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08954058198438593014noreply@blogger.com